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  • Looking Ahead

    Published 01/06/24

    June 2024

    So here we are. The start of the last term before the summer break.

    The beginning of the end if you like.

    For some it is exciting, a chance to look at the light at the end of the tunnel and see a bright future ahead.

    For others, it is a slippery slope that is getting so close, an unstoppable end point with change, endings and uncertainty coming.

    I wonder which it is for you.

    But looking ahead – whether we are the first or the latter person above – sometimes means that we neglect to notice the here and now. Some call it ‘being present’ or ‘mindfulness’.

    Why not take a moment when you can this week to recognise where you are now. The journey you have been on since September, the things you have achieved or the hurdles you’ve managed to get past.

    Our younger students have got passed their SATS, our older students are now part way through their exams. For the adults, scroll or flick through your diary and remind yourself of the times you have needed support and the times you have been more at peace.

    All these things are moments to give thanks to God. St Paul – whilst shackled in prison – said that in all things we should give thanks to God. At all times pray and give thanks.

    Give thanks for the present, the moments that feel like a blessing, the snippets of support and celebration that get you through each week. Give thanks for the presence of God as you need the Strength of the Holy Spirit more than usual maybe.

    Father God,

    Creator of all things, beginning and end, Spirit and supporter,

    We give thanks for all that is past and the things we have learned about ourselves and the world.

    Help us in our strong days and our weak to recognise your presence.

    Encourage us to rest in you for our needs and inspire us to support others through our faith.

    Remind us Lord that with you All Shall Be Well.

    Amen

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  • Newsletter May 2024

    Published 01/05/24

    I’ve been reflecting over the bible stories that might speak about the exams season.

    I’ve looked an d at no point does it suggest that any of the disciples or the great leaders of God’s people ever had to sit a ninety minute test up a small table in a large hall full of people. Or sit their SATS, pass their GCSEs or complete their A Levels.

    But there were times of being tested and waiting for the time to pass.

    There’s a tension in the air, people are hurrying by speaking in hushed tones waiting for the thing to happen. Serious things are afoot, the next steps are going to be harder for some than for others. Everyone is affected, no one is immune to what is going on.

    But the preparation has been done, the people are ready and they sit IN FAITH and know that God is on their side. And so the Spirit of God moves over Egypt and tests the nation. And those that are faithful, those who take peace in God’s presence are rewarded. Similarly the disciples, sat in the upper room - waiting for the next steps to be shown to them - wait in faith and take peace from Jesus’ presence. And they are rewarded with the gifts of words and inspiration and courage.

    We pray God’s Blessing on those who are preparing for and sitting their tests at this time.

    For the parents supporting them and trying to reduce their anxiety.

    For the staff who are encouraging them and reminding them and reassuring them.

    For the exam staff overseeing them.

    May they feel God’s presence in those places, may they take courage from all that they have done that prepares them for this time, and may they be at peace with what they have been able to achieve.

    In God’s name we pray. Amen

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  • A New Summer-ish Term

    Published 15/04/24

    This last couple of weeks have been sprinkled with celebrations.

    Whether you celebrated Easter, Eid or the merely the start of British Summer Time, I hope you have found them uplifting, joy-giving and inspiring.

     

    This new term begins with bright blue sky, driving rain, biting cold, high winds and patches of lovely warm sunshine. A true British Summers day. But with it comes uncertainty – coat or not, umbrella or not, sunglasses, gloves, rainhat, snow shovel, sunscreen or bivouac?

     

    This term also begins like that for many of our children and young people: 

    Our year 6 pupils now know there Secondary School places and hopefully most will be satisfied. 

    They are however facing the prospect of SATS in a number of weeks’ time.

    Similarly too, our Year 11 students are planning for their Prom whilst working really diligently towards their exams that begin in the coming weeks.

     

    God’s people are resilient. I preached on this yesterday and we used the example of Nehemiah.

    God’s people have been scattered, their identity has been knocked. Yet they still follow God and still try to hold onto their values. Their present is uncertain, their future without hope, but still they go onwards.

    Regardless of the uncertainty of the world, their ability to bounce back from setbacks is equalled by their faith in a loving God who values them and encourages them.

     

    My prayer for each of us this term is to double down on our faith – pray a bit more, worship a little more, read more if you can, and look and listen for God more.

    My hope is that even if those around us are struggling and stressing – they will take courage and find peace in those of us who can offer a word of compassion and a prayer of thanksgiving.

    Lord God,

    Ready us for whatever is to come.

    Strengthen us to journey through what we need to get through.

    Inspire us to seek those things that will make us resilient.

    Encourage us to support others as we also remember to care for ourselves.

    Bless us as we look to you for your spirit’s touch upon our lives.

    In God’s Holy name we pray.

    Amen.

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  • Easter

    Published 20/03/24

    The Journey to Easter for Jesus and the Disciples was such a roller coaster of emotions:

    From the joy of the people as Jesus entered the gates of Jerusalem, to the shouts of crucify as Jesus was put before the people. Judged unfairly, punished cruelly, and painfully killed. 

    From the tears of sorrow at the cross to tears of celebration at the resurrection. 

     

    Our journey through life often echoes the rollercoaster of Easter. New life comes through planting in darkness. The seed is planted even though it appears lifeless, the egg that is laid is similarly without movement or feature but life comes forth, flowers grow between the stones because life has a way of finding a way to grow and flourish.

     

    As much as we wish to celebrate, sometimes we have hard work to do or go through tough times to get there. In this Easter Season, let us pray for light and life to encourage us to give thanks and celebrate.

     

    Almighty Father, you have given your only Son to die for our sins and to rise again for our justification:

    Grant that we may put aside all evil and wickedness that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth through the merits of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

     

    May God bless you this Easter.

    May the cross remind you the Jesus came to bless you.

    May the empty tomb remind you that sin has been between for you.

    And May the signs of new life around you remind you of the living Spirit of God that goes with you through life. Amen.

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  • 2024...

    Published 09/01/24

    I don’t know about you but some things I can adapt to quite quickly and other things take me ages to get my head round.

    When the clocks change or the year changes it take me ages to come to terms with it. If something you’ve ordered on the menu suddenly needs to change, then I am happy to go with the flow. I wonder why that is?

    2024 feels like it’s going to be one of those years where we see change. Changes in the way we think about our climate. Changes to our parliament with the upcoming election.

     Our Year 6s and year 11s and 13s have some obvious changes coming towards them. They will be surrounded by encouragement to work, surrounded by things coming to an end – the lasts of everything, and the firsts of things too.

    In all these moments, it is really important that we find things that will still be consistent and feel safe. The presence of family or supportive friends maybe. The security of a comfortable home perhaps. The love of God for sure.

    Going forward let us pray for each other and the faith they need to face each new day. Let us support each other in whatever we are finding tricky or difficult to come to terms with.

    Some words from James 1:17.

    All good gifts come from the Father who loves us. His love for us never changes. 

    Lord God, Creator of the universe, maker of the planets, designer of our humanity.

    As we are held safely in the palm of your hand, help us to recognise the security we have in you. Remind us of your love. 

    Let us give thanks for all the blessings that come from God. Amen.

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  • Find Joy where you can...

    Published 18/12/23

    Yesterday was Gaudete Sunday (pronounced Gow-det-ay). It’s one of the days of the year where priests can where Pink if they want (I didn’t!).

     It reminds us to rejoice and find joy where we can.

    Mary sings of her joy in being chosen. Paul reminds us to Rejoice in the Lord always.

     At this time, we are in a countdown. The last nativity play before Christmas, the last few days before the end of term, the last few sleeps until Christmas.

    How will you count down? Are there traditions that you have to close down and get ready for the season.

     Christmas holds many things for many people – firsts for some, lasts for others. But regardless of how it hits you – it takes great skill to find joy where you can.

    The joy of a life well-lived. The joy of an innocent smile. 

    The joy of a song sung nicely. The joy of a heart-warming welcome.

     However the week takes you. 

    May you find glimpses of joy in amongst the stresses and strains.

    May the joy of the angels bring good news to you.

    Amen

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  • Are you feeling festive?

    Published 12/12/23

    Are you feeling festive?

    Do you start quite early or only feel festive when everything is done?

    Maybe you don’t feel festive. Maybe this year you are not quite feeling it.

    Maybe you never do.

    If we look at the reason for the season, Mary and Joseph didn’t feel festive either. Both had been surprised by the events that unfolded. Both had been forced to uproot themselves for the sake of a government decree.

    What followed then was a time of uncertainty and a journey that would land them in a different country until it was safe to return.

    Despite the visits of angels and shepherds and the wise – they didn’t have decorations, a tree or time to shop.

    Many people may be thinking about how they might celebrate this little bit of time we have together over the next few weeks. Whether we get fully into the festivities or whether we visit family and friends, we pray that this will be a time of reflection and celebration.

    As Advent gets closer to Christmas – the church recognises Love coming into the world, recognises the joy and hope in a new life born in the world and the peace that comes from one intent on sharing all they had for the sake of the world.

    This year, we pray for hope in a world where hope is sometimes hard to come by. We pray for love to shared and joy to be seen in the lives of those we care for and those who need it most.

    And above all – wherever there is conflict, upheaval, stress, anxiety or illness – we pray for God’s amazing Peace that is beyond all our understanding to be in our hearts and homes at this Festive time.

    Have a Joy-filled Christmas and we will meet again in the New Year.

    Amen

     Photo by Guille Álvarez on Unsplash

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  • Hands

    Published 21/11/23

    The Future is in Your Hands.

    It’s a funny thing to say really and I wonder what comes to mind when people say that to you or about our community or our world.

    My initial action often is to look at my hands. 

    I wonder when was the last time you looked at your hands and really took notice of them. What story do they tell about you? Sherlock Holmes believed that hands could tell someone’s occupation, their lifestyle choices and their history. Some people look at hands and try to tell stories of the future based on the lines and marks upon the hands.

    I wonder if you look at your hands and consider whether the future is within them?

    Many of our students are about to take assessments, mock exams and tests. What words or figures they write, what art they create may determine the next part of their future. As adults - what we write, how we create our online selves and what we work at - may also form parts of our future.

    The Bible also talks of hands – we are held in the palms of God’s hands, the safest place to be. Jesus uses caring hands to heal and to hold, to break down barriers. At the time of the crucifixion, his hands hold him to the cross in order to show his love for the world and all those within it.

    Take a moment just now. 

    Hold your hands out in front of you and consider:

    What will I achieve with my hands today? 

    What kindness can I do, what help can I offer?

    And then offer a prayer to God:

    Into your hands O Lord, I put my trust.

    In your hands O God, may I feel the strength that I need.

    Amen.

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  • What is it about names?

    Published 08/11/23

    What is it about names? What’s so special about them?

    In centuries past, names described us – either the family we belonged to or the role, the skill or the part we played in our community.

    Names like Smith, Fletcher, Cooper and many more described our skills in the community.

    Titles were then added to our names according to the status that were given – Lord, Esquire, Lady, Countess. Some of these can still be found in online ordering systems – especially shops like Harrods and Liberty!!

    But what about our names – the names were given, the names we choose for ourselves.

    Whether it is a professional name, a personal name or nickname.

    In the deaf community people also have sign names that are special and unique to them.

    Maybe there is a story behind your name?

    Our names speak of our identity – to ourselves and to others.

    Maybe you have considered what your name means to you.

    Maybe you’ve considered what you want others might call you and what that means.

    I am Dominic to my parents, Dom to friends and Rev Dom to hundreds of children locally.

    A friend at school used to call me Donamic, whilst an adult friend called me Damien for ages.

    Maybe you’ve been at a meeting or a conference when they’ve got your name wrong, or written it wrong on a badge, or introduced you in a way that you wouldn’t have chosen.

    What is it about names?

    Jesus called people by name. He used their names to speak to them about deep things.

    It feels like he knew everyone’s names.

    He spoke confidently to Zaccheus in the tree who needed to be forgiven.

    He spoke calmly to Mary in the garden when she discovered his resurrection.

    He spoke clearly to Peter to set him on a path to begin something amazing.

    Names speak of belonging. Of knowing people and addressing them with respect and value and concern. Names help us feel known and heard and understood. They convey safety and trust.

    In a moment of stillness let us recognise our own name and the names of those we love – those who come to mind instantly – those who need to be seen and loved.

    In a moment of prayer let us be reminded of those who God created this world for, that Christ died for, and that the spirit seeks to bless.

    O lord you search me and know me. You know when I sit or stand, my work and my rest, my words and thoughts and deeds.

    Where I go, you are there, your strength and protection and love and care are with me.

    I am wonderfully made, I am made in your image.

    Remind us of our identity that is blessed by you.

    Support us to see the amazingness of others and know them by name.

    Bless us with your spirit that we might offer your blessing to others in our care.

    Amen.

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  • Stepladders

    Published 08/09/23

    This week I have been talking to staff and students about stepladders.

    I even dragged around some ladders for staff to look at and reflect upon.

    I encouraged them to think about us all being on a stepladder in life. Some are starting on the bottom step, whilst others have got to the top and are changing the ladders that they are on.

    Our Nursery and Reception children will be taking their early steps on their Primary Ladder. Our Year 7s will be stepping onto their Secondary Ladder. Our older students will be stepping into GCSEs or stepping onto Post 16 and Post 18 courses and apprenticeship ladders.

    Even us as adults are on career ladders, life ladders, health ladders or property ladders.

    As we reflect on this, maybe consider where you are at the moment and if you are able to offer others a hand up or encouragement to keep climbing. Maybe you could be supporting and praying for your family members who are starting new things, ending certain stages or finding the climb tough.

    Our God reaches out to us. Whenever God sent messages they were reassuring messages of ‘Do not be afraid’. God strengthens us and guides us when we have faith.

    My prayer for you is that wherever you are on Life’s ladders, you understand that there are a great cloud of witnesses, in heaven and on Earth, cheering you on and willing you to succeed and find joy in all that you do.

    Remember too that if you or your child or young people, are having a hard time – there are people around you (me included) that can support you and pray with you if you would like that. Seek them out or contact me in school and I will be happy to help where I can.

    Take it one step at a time. We can do this.

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  • Hope

    Published 08/06/23

    I was enjoying the weather recently and after enjoying a lovely sunny afternoon and a warm evening, I watched the sun go down. 

    A small part of me was sad that a beautiful day had ended but I was hopeful as I knew the sun would rise in the morning.

    There are times when we are enjoying life, when the sun is shining and things seem to be going well. We enjoy these times but often spoil our own joy by worrying what the next season will hold. We forget that come what may, the sun will come up again in the morning.

    It is important too to remember that when the days are gloomy and that life, like the clouds, are grey and heavy – the sun will come out again soon.

    In the Bible – Jesus asks us to consider the birds of the air and the flowers in our gardens and reminds us that if these are well kept for by God, then so will we. If they don’t need to worry about tomorrow because of God’s love, then God’s love will be there for us way more than the flowers and the birds.

    The night may feel long, cold and endless. But the sun is coming.

    The stars may be covered and the light be clouded. But the sun is coming.

    Lord God, 

    As we enjoy the sunny days of life and the warmth of your love in good times, we thank you. As we work through grey days and long nights, remind us that the sun is coming and we can have hope. As we look for the light to dawn, may we look for you in our lives. May we have faith that you hear and answer our prayers. 

    Amen.

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  • Testing Times

    Published 15/05/23

    So last week saw the SATS for year 6 children. This coming week sees the SATS for year 2s and the beginning of the exam season for year 11 and 13: GCSEs,  ‘A’ Levels and BTECs.

    It is a testing time.

    For our students, there are moments when they have to dive into the depths of the knowledge they’ve received in order to make some sense of it on paper. For our staff there are moments of questioning of themselves – did we do enough, did we remember everything, will they remember everything, will they be ok? Our parents too will be worried about their young people’s performance, they will worry whether they have had breakfast, are they well rested, are they calm and relaxed, have they remembered to take a pen.

    During our lives there are testing times but maybe not like the exams that are being set for our young people. There are decisions to be made, judgements to call, choices to pick. It reminds me of the lines in Ecclesiastes 3 about there being a time for everything and everything has its opposite – maybe there should be a line which says ‘there is a time for testing and time for resting’.

    But through out all these things – whether we are a child, a young person or an adult – there are things we can do to deal with these testing times in the best ways possible.

    The first is to PRAY – spend some time in quiet, not speaking, just breathing and listening for God. Offer up to God your stress and your anxieties, offer up the confusion and the impact of what you are facing. Imagine leaving your test with God, imagine being given the answer.

    The next is PREPARE – think through what you have to do. I find it helps me to draw or write what is on my mind and make some lists. Have the conversations in your head about what you need to say. Often a sense of being well prepared helps us to reduce our stress levels and be clear about what we want to happen next.

    Finally – and this is not an exhaustive list of everything – PARTNERS. Feeling alone is the biggest thing to make us feel powerless and unprepared. Partner with God and ask God to walk with you through whatever you face. Partner with someone who understands you and can support you, who you can talk with and who can ask you questions that make you think. Partner with someone who doesn’t know the details but is there for you regardless. Someone who just wants to see you supported and safe.

    Lord God,

    As our young people prepare for their testing times, we pray that they feel supported, that they feel well prepared and that they are surrounded by a crowd of supporters encouraging them.

    As we go through testing times – whether in work, family, financial, relationship or otherwise, may we remember to pray for your peace, your guidance and your support. May we feel strong enough through your spirit to tackle what lies ahead.

    And as we journey through life, send us faithful partners that support us, help us and pray for us as we do the same for them.

    May the community support those who need it most. Amen 

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